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Speak about a loaded subject that no one wants to chat about, that’s it. Funny thing, extramarital affairs have been going on from the beginning of the world. Extramarital affairs can be burdened with problems, cause sadness, and other problems. Plus you have to wrap your brain around all the other issues, there’s that truth and sincerety issue, money, age difference, spiritual upbringing, shame, and on and on. I anticipate there will be some strong opinions about some of this.

For the purpose of this article I shall classify an affair as a long term, maybe weeks long relationship of a sexual nature between two individuals of whom one or both are married to other persons, date married woman.

Why do men have extramarital affairs? There are as many reasons as there are people seeking affairs. I am sure mostly though it is just the human condition, the need for love, belonging, to be wanted and cared for, the caring for others and wanting to be loved and appreciated. Here are a several reasons I have run across.

Biologically we as human beings are all sexual beings. Nature has us set up to reproduce, to have sex. Sex is pleasant and exciting, and sex makes us flee the world for a short period of time. This euphoria exists for whatever amount of time we are able to keep the adrenalin levels high enough. Someone are able to switch the craving on and off, some are brilliant at controlling it and others are so-so at best. But we all have it, young and elder, able bodied and not so able. It is the Human condition. For some of us it is the sex act itself that drives us. For some of us it is the stimulation of the pursue. For some of us it is the seduction, for some it is the caring for another being, for some it is the desire to be appreciatedloved, for some it is the entire romance thing. These desires and yearnings can be so strong they rise above the taboos culture has erected against married dating. For lots of people the yearnings will beat their doubts and make them risk the rage of not only their family, but society as well. So why, what is the means?

Sex Addicts, maybe some of us are. Sex is very good, better then drugs, a natural high. If you are in this group of biologically obsessed sex addicts and can find away to have an affair and not injure your relatives or anybody else? You would need to lessen the threat you are taking. If you have the feeling that a good affair is one that is advantageous to all, then good luck.

No love at home, or no romance. I suppose this is the largest cluster, colossal really. There are many couples whose marriage is over, but they are happy in the manner they live, and upsetting the extended families is not on their list of things they wish to do. You love your spouse but there is no romance. Then there are the children to consider. Your savings are so tangled. You need the medical insurance, and so on. There are a lot of reasons to be jointly besides love and sex.

Physical reasons, there are some people who can not have sex. They have physical circumstances that prevent them implementing the sex performance, at least not with their othere half. An affair occasionally solves the trouble while keeping the marriage whole.

Neglect, sorrowfully this is a regular cause I fear. One or the other, as a rule the guy is sexually neglecting his spouse for a multitude of reasons. As a man I truly appreciate you guys neglecting your wives and making them obtainable to us guys of romance, making them “milfs” But I still think it is despicable that you are neglectful. Also there is the spouse who is neglectful until the wife or husband has an affair, then they condemn them for doing so, when they where the catalyst. Those who neglect, then condemn, are not just neglectful, but evil.

Something is just misplaced in the marriage, I can not put my finger on it, but its not there. Probably its romance that is missing, could be it is a shortage of love, could be caring is disappeared, maybe it is the intimacy, could be neglect. Could be we have simply developed apart, our ordinary concerns diverged. Maybe it is that what I want, and what I want to do the rest of my ages, is diverce of what you want. Maybe I just do not know what I want from the marriage anymore. Maybe, just maybe I miss that emotion that when I am with you, it just feels right.

The number one reason people give is, they seek the passion that is missing and so very much longed for.

There are other reasons, the feeling of power, to get away, for economic gain, for vengeance and so on. I am sure there are more reasons why people have affairs then these. I only stop because if this gets too long no one will read it.